Mediation of Marriages To Find Stable Common Ground
Marital Mediation is Mediation to Stay Married
Ending a marriage has emotional, financial, and legal consequences. Divorce “fall-out” touches not only the couple that is divorcing, it also impacts the children of the parties, the parties’ parents, extended family, friends and religious relationships.
If you are already in marital counseling, religious counseling or any other kind of counseling or therapy marital mediation can still move forward. Marital Mediation is more goal directed. It is led by the couple with the guidance of the mediator. The trained mediator creates a safe and private place for the couple to identify and discuss the issues that are hurting the marriage. The goal is to create a plan that the couple can use to change the behavior that is hurting the marriage.
Your first call should be to an experienced Divorce Mediator who will provide you information about your options when you are thinking of Divorce. Some Mediators, like myself, are also Attorneys. The attorney mediator is neutral professional who will work with both of you to teach you how to communicate about the issues that bring you to mediation, and help you build a path toward a future together.
Marital mediation can help you explore what the problems are in your marriage. If either you or your spouse can’t reach an understanding about a plan moving forward together, then you may choose to end the marriage. It is not the Mediator’s role to tell you what the right thing is to do. You will learn about options and potential consequences so you can decide for yourself what you want to do.
If your Marital Mediation does not help keep your marriage together, you may decide it is time to go forward with a divorce. You do not have to go to court for your divorce. As an attorney who has spent most of her career handling family law and matrimonial cases, I can assure the reader that divorce resolution processes like Mediation and Collaborative Law are far better than litigation. The courts are especially not the place for family disputes, custody and parenting issues, and problems in a marriage.
Mersereau Law Office offers Mediation and Collaborative Law via online video conferencing.
What are the goals of Marriage Mediation?
- To help the couple examine the root cause or causes of the conflict in the marriage and then make a plan to change things.
- To teach the couple constructive ways to communicate, so they can be open to hearing the other party’s concerns and suggestions so that they can gain a better understanding of each other.
- To assist the couple in finding a way to stay together, address their problems, and keep the family together.
- To allow the couple to have fully explored whether they can commit to the changes that need to be made to keep the marriage intact.
- To create a written agreement for the parties that will be their game plan going forward.
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Rochester, NY 14618
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Syracuse, NY 13202
Contact Mersereau Law Office, PLLC today for a prompt review of your options. Julie Mersereau can help you make the most informed decisions for what legal or mediation crossroads may be ahead. Virtual and remote consultation is available, as well as full-on virtual mediation and collaborative law services.